Here is the second poem in this month’s series. It’s closely related to the first; an intimate description of major depression, though this piece actually brings it to the point of suicidality. This describes a time when I was so desperately despondent, so hopeless and alone, that I was almost detached from reality. Cutting was the only thing that reminded me I was still alive, jolted me back to the present moment. I wanted someone to notice those screaming red wounds, but at the same time I just wanted to be left alone to die. You get to a point where it really doesn’t matter either way; save me or don’t, I don’t care. It’s difficult to imagine this kind of depression if you’ve never experienced it. I hope this poem goes a little way toward explaining it.
6/24/04
Close
Inside these walls, a perpetual night
I live in the darkness to stay out of sight
I flinch around others, can’t handle the light
It’s all so intrusive, too loud and too bright
At the threshold of hell I hover so close
Deeply disturbed, tormented, morose
Spiraling down, to this pain I succumb
Breaking the point at which I will turn numb
Chillingly silent, nightmarishly black
Blood’s the one thing to which I react
I use the cool blades to keep me alive
The physical sting on which I thrive
By turns sobbing wildly, then hardening to stone
In mercurial madness I suffer alone
Planning the moment at which all this will end
Towards my departure I slowly descend
Time starts to melt, twist in on itself
I’m beginning to think that I might need some help
They’ll get one last chance to see I’m still here
Though dwindling faster than they ever feared
I step out at the close, my last chance to survive
I dare someone to notice that I’m still alive
For if no one does, then I’ll know what to do
The shadow will fall, and I will be through
© Sarah Ann Henderson
May 6th, 2011 at 2:12 am
Chilling. Moving. Illuminating. Amazing.
May 6th, 2011 at 5:06 am
Yes I’ve been my choice of weapons was broken glass,I needed to know I could still feel something. Then I just spiralled down toother forms. putting greater weights on me that evan I could’t carry. But things are changing, can’t do that and write, at the same time. My greater joy is found in the writing. Rest Gently Please.
May 6th, 2011 at 8:25 pm
I’m so glad you chose writing over cutting- much better by far! 🙂
May 6th, 2011 at 5:18 am
Sarah — I am getting ready for my day, it is a bit after 7 in the morning here. I am doing a thousand things – reading emails, quotidian tasks….Your poem here is very recognizable to me. It is very sad – very sad…..I recently was hospitalized, and felt myself slipping away…and I could not nothing more….and I did not care….Thank you, Sarah. Please, please know that there are others who understand. I weep for us. I weep for those of us ‘who bleed’…..I send love. Onward, Sarah, onward……
May 6th, 2011 at 8:25 pm
I am glad that you are out of the hospital now and getting on with the business of life. It is not an easy thing to do. The reason I am publishing these poems now is because I want to show people that there are others out there who have experienced this type of depression and come through it. It has fortunately been several years for me since I’ve had a depressive episode, let alone one this bad. I want to give people hope that there is life on the other side of a depression like that.
Keep pushing forward on your own journey. Best wishes; be well. Sarah