A poem from your new admin: “#blamingthevictim”

Good day, readers,

 

My name is Särah Nour and I have the honor of being the new manager of “Writing for Recovery.” I intend to continue furthering Sarah Ann Henderson’s cause of spreading awareness and providing a safe, open forum for those recovering from mental illness, abuse, sexual violence, and eating disorders.

 

I’d like to start off with a poem I wrote a while back, when I was repulsed by the victim-blaming, slut-shaming reactions to the Steubenville rape case. All my anger, revulsion, and horror had to be channeled in a healthy manner, so I choose to copy and paste the appalling quotes found on Twitter and use them to my advantage.

child-rapist1

#blamingthevictim

 

Twitter deems her a cautionary tale:

“Remember kids, if you’re drink/slutty at a party,

and embarrassed later, just say you got raped!”

#Steubenville

Who would ask for it?

 

Twitter has a firm grasp on her situation:

“So you got drunk at a party

and two people take advantage of you,

that’s not rape that’s just a loose drunk slut”

#BiasedResults

Who would ask for it?

 

Underage drinking is the bigger crime here:

“These guys that are in this rape case

should be charged if guilty.

But it’s the girl’s fault too.

She is 16 and got drunk until she passed out.”

#dontdrink

Who would ask for it?

 

Who would ask to be blamed

For not following the dress code,

For drinking too much,

For being taken against her will?

 

“I’m not saying what they did isn’t wrong

but it’s not rape… It’s the girl’s fault.”

#justice

“I’m not blaming the victim here

but how do you get that drunk in the first place?”

#Steubenville

 

Who would ask to be judged nationwide

For a night that will haunt her dreams

For years to come?

 

No one would ask to be

Violated, dehumanized, objectified;

No one would ask to be

Raped.

 

To be the prey

First of two young men

Then of the media

Then of strangers on the Internet

Who know nothing about her

Yet hold her responsible—

Who would ask for it?

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About writingforrecovery

Sarah is a writer and poet who speaks out about issues that make people uncomfortable. Sarah advocates for causes such a sexual assault, domestic violence, child abuse, and mental illness, and often speaks openly about her own experiences. She is determined to abolish the stigma associated with these issues and believes that it starts with people telling their stories, so she started a blog called Writing for Recovery where people can do just that. She is the author of three volumes of poetry and is currently at work on her fourth. She is convinced that there's a novel somewhere in her, and occasionally picks at the chapters so far. View all posts by writingforrecovery

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